July 17, 2022 Sister Act(s) Luke 10:38-42 Highlighted
Today's gospel from Luke 10 follows the parable of the Good Samaritan. The text positions the Good Samaritan and the Mary-Martha story back to back for good reason. The parable and the story are examples of the Great Commandment "to love the Lord your God with all your heart and your neighbor as yourself." The Good Samaritan parable illustrates "love to neighbor," whereas the Mary-Martha story illustrates "love to God."
Meet the two M & M sisters — Mary and Martha. They are two peas in the same pod and yet so different. Martha and Mary live in the same town — Bethany in Judea. They live in the same house. They have the same brother — Lazarus. How can two sisters, so alike, be so different?
We are told by Luke, that Jesus comes to Bethany and to the two sisters' home for a visit. This is one of many happy times they spend together. Rest, conversation, and friendship, no doubt, occupy their time.
Mary sits at Jesus' feet as a disciple would sit at the feet of a rabbi master, listening, observing, and learning.
Martha is busy with her many tasks in the household and rather crossly asks, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her then to help me" (v. 40).
What would Jesus' answer be? Jesus surely loved and valued both sisters equally — Mary, the sitter and Martha, the worker. How can two peas in the same pod function so differently?
Every church needs a Martha. Change that. Every church needs a hundred Marthas. Sleeves rolled up and ready. Because of Marthas the church budgets get balanced church buildings get repaired and cleaned. You don't appreciate Marthas until a Martha is missing and all the Marys of the church start scrambling to find the keys to lock doors, turn off the lights and turn off the fans. Yes, Marthas are the Energizer Bunnies of the church. They keep going and going and going.
However, Jesus rebukes Martha by saying, "Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her" (v. 41).
Mary, sitting at the feet of Jesus, looks into the eyes of the Master. Mary listens to his words, his teachings. Mary feels loved, special, affirmed, and graced by Jesus. "Mary has chosen the thing needful ..." whereas Martha hurries and scurries about. Three flies get into Martha's soup!
The first fly is worry. Martha is worried, anxious, and stressed! We, too, in modern life, know only so well about worry, anxiety, and stress. We are plagued with stress overload. Our internal emotional wiring network blazes hot and shorts out.
In the next twelve months, we will consume over 20,000 tons of aspirin in some form ... that totals 225 tablets per person per year, or 2/3 of a tablet per person per day. It appears that most everyone in the US has a headache most of the time.
We are worried, anxious, and stressed. In Martin Luther's day the populace asked the question, "How can I find a gracious God?" Years ago they asked, "How can I get to heaven?" Now today, people are asking, "How can I get through the day?" "Martha, Martha, you are worried...."
We are like that couple who had their home broken into. The husband heard a noise in the middle of the night. He went downstairs to investigate and found a burglar emptying the silver chest. He said to burglar, "Stay where you are. I want to get my wife. She has been expecting you for twenty years."
We are anxious and troubled about not only our "silver chests" but about many things. Jesus speaks the word of grace: "One thing is needful. Only one. Mary has chosen it."
Sit with the scriptures in quiet place and you know of that which Mary chose. Or come to holy communion ... light a candle in the dim darkness on Christmas Eve and let the candlelight glow touch you and move you. Discover the one thing needful.
The second fly in Martha's soup is distraction. "Martha you are worried and distracted by many things." To be distracted is to be unfocused. Our thoughts, our plans, and our lives feel like we are out of control and pulled in every direction. To be focused, on the other hand, is to have a plan, a purpose, a meaning that directs and enhances one's life.
What are those things that keep us from sitting and drinking from the fountain of life? What keeps us from looking and listening and loving? What are the events that distract us from worship? What are the abundance of ideas and thoughts and impulses that obscure the awesomeness of Christ and Christ's mercy and love? A thousand distractions leap into our lap and demand, "Follow me, buy me, go here, go there, do this, do that!"
Besides being worried and distracted, the third fly in Martha's soup is resentment. "Lord do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself?" To be resentful is to be indignantly aggrieved at someone.
Resentment can rust a relationship. Resentment can freeze out a friendship. Resentment can alienate your allies and associates.
Even though we see three flies in Martha's soup — worry, distraction, and resentment, the gospel does not call us to irresponsible behaviors. It's not to say, forget the kitchen, the garage, and the work; play and then go to five Bible studies a week. Rather, it's to see a balance.
Work and worship teeter back and forth in our lives. When the busyness is dominant, then Jesus says, "there is need of only one thing...." Always in response to grace we seek ways of being intentional about our life with God. Prayer, times of solitude and meditation, and aligning our wills to God's will becomes the priority. In Ecclesiastes chapter 3, we hear the rhythmic cadence of the wisdom writer who portrays time and timing. There is a time ... "for everything there is a season and a time for every matter under heaven ... a time to be born and a time to die ... a time to break down and a time to build up ... a time to cry and a time to laugh ... a time to keep silence and a time to speak ... there's a time for everything." There is a time for every matter under heaven. There is a time to labor and a time to love. There is a time to work and a time to worship.
Two sisters representing two aspects of the Christian life alert us to the task of balance as we remember "the one thing needful." Amen.